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Thoughts on Relationships & Dating

“We don’t always need advice. Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand.” via Marc & Angel

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Relationships have been on my mind for a number of months now, it wasn’t until one of my favourite female bloggers came out with, “Addressing the Divorced Elephant in the Room” that I felt compelled to do so. This blog entry came from Team Liz & Kit. I enjoy their style of blogging because they really have opposite lifestyles at the moment. They have interesting female perspectives on a lot of different topics. So definitely check out their blog… after you read mine of course 😉

I thought I would dig deep for this one or at least as deep as I care to divulge. Relationships or should I say dating, to me is a cruel unusual form of punishment these days. I don’t think dating in itself is cruel, I think technology has really done something to society that takes the personal out of being personally responsible.

One would only hope that if you were dating someone that they would not, could not, end a relationship like this…

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But apparently this is becoming part of how we treat and deal with individuals on a daily basis. And for some reason I’ve grown to be disappointed by all of this, perhaps because I’m very attached and open to all aspects of my emotions. A tad bit old fashion. After all I do believe in opening a door for a lady, sending flowers, and writing poetry about how much seeing a certain look in their eyes lights up my world and when females smile, in this, child like way. Well it just makes me want to melt.

Technology was meant to improve the way that we live, but, should not be how we address our personal responsibility to one another. Out of mutual respect towards each others feelings. Regardless of the fact that perhaps there is no respect, there should be at least common decency. It seems like we’ve openly become this society that avoids pain and hurt like the plague. Which is all well and good, but really, it only serves your purpose and not the other. This type of selfish act, depending upon how attached the other person is to the relationship is, takes away the necessary steps to actually cope with a relationship gone wrong. It leaves them empty inside, struggling and looking for answers in all hours of the night and using “Wiki-Help” and their fabulous & insightful cartoon depiction to get over someone. Which by the way, I for one believe that is a slap in the face of human emotions.

So with all of this in mind, dating, relationships have become so strange to me. I love, the ideal relationship, the kind you only find in romantic comedies. Or if you went to any old age home and you asked your grandparents how they met the love of their life. But these days I find those stories to be to far and in-between. Not to say they don’t still exist, but it seems like you have to go through a couple mini long term relationships just to find the “one”. And thats heart breaking, and what is even more heart breaking to me is I don’t have the high school sweet heart story, or college love story, to tell my future kids about. Those are the relationship stories that have so much hope and filled with history.

The only stories we have is, “I tried e-harmony because I was too busy to have a personal social interaction with someone, so I had to do an impersonal match with someone on another screen instead of finding out about the person the old fashion way of asking questions and getting to know them personally” … Too long? Perhaps.

Again just another way technology doomed us all, and in another few years, we won’t have to use a site to find a match you’ll just be matched at birth like some other countries have been accustomed to.

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I am not 100 percent sure where dating & relationships will go in the near future, all I could say is I hope it has some retro feeling to it. It’s difficult, people are so judgemental and make a decision based upon what they see and not what they feel. And what they feel is something that grows over time. But our time is so precious and busy we don’t really appreciate those moments that make time stand still, the moments our parents felt probably every second they were together.

I hope I am wrong, and if your single & reading this, I hope you discover your storybook love story in a way that best represents what you want.

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Perhaps the true conclusion to draw from “A true love story never ends” is simply it never ends and never really has a beginning either, we merely go through experiences during the course of our lives to find out what truly matters to us the most. Mutual love, respect, honesty, loyalty & always infinite in both receiving and giving. And it doesn’t matter how long it takes, how many different ways you do it, or how you get there. What matters the most is that you’re there. And at that moment you too will receive the kind of love story only shared in movies regardless of age, demographic, or circumstances.

So, What do you think about relationships and dating these days? Leave a comment!

Be well to one another, and as always, Be Legendary.
– Michael

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A Journey of 1000 footsteps

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” – Lao-tzu

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This past weekend was filled with the wondrous gift of friendship and insight, followed by the gift of giving, and, that gift was then given back to me with a warm feeling of admiration and love. With the icing on the cake, Sunday being a day of knowledge and self-reflection. I couldn’t have asked for a better weekend in my entire life.

And as Sunday drew to a close I concluded with writing in the final page of my journal I’ve kept for the last year. I’ve kept a written journal of my thoughts since I’ve been in high school. Close to more than a decade of thoughts written in books, it’s been a great source of inspiration to me to go back and see how much personal development has occurred within the span of 10 years, yet alone the last year, which, has been proven to be a year with the most highs and lows in my entire life.

I’m not 100 percent sure what in my life possessed me to keep writing a journal for so long, but I was reading the biography of Benjamin Franklin, and it seemed less “childish” to keep a journal of your thoughts. Ben wrote about his daily activities, experiments and other parts of his life as did Da Vinci, I believe its a great way to monitor personal growth and can be a great source of inspiration for future generations to come one day. I’m glad that I did and continue to do so, never know when they will come in handy.

It’s also great to see how life is full of highs and lows. I can smile to see how excited I was during certain high points in my life and learn how much emotional strength was created by working through my low points. And just how long did it take me to bounce back each time a low point occurred, and how did I do so and to whom was I with during a time of need.

I’m not going to write about how perfect I am. I’m not going to tell you every single relationship was a positive one and never ended badly. I’m not concern with how it might appear to other people as they read this. Truthfully, I am perfectly, imperfect. I have my faults and my weaknesses in life and I acknowledge what they are. We try so hard to be what everyone else wants us to be and we hold this image in our mind that if we don’t possess certain qualities, look a certain way or act a certain way that people will just not care about us anymore. I like the blunt honest truth, I am that I am, and acceptance has put me that much closer in-tune with myself, to then be able to work on my weaknesses in life. To understand relationships better and attract more wealth not just in possessions but spiritual. (Yeah, I’m one of THOSE types of people, sorry.)

Getting back to this past weekend, the greatest gift you can offer someone is your time, time well spent is time laughing and sharing in fond memories & creating new ones. And just the ability to share happiness with each other can instantaneously alter another persons path, as happiness & positivity is infections. Needless to say I am excited, I am filled with joy by the friendships that are in my life right now. And I wish I could just go on top of a mountain every single morning and shout out how grateful I am for all of them. And I guess this blog could be considered my mountain, but don’t take your friends for granted. Let them know how much they mean to you as a person, for real, it’s the most painful experience to wake up one morning and realize things aren’t how they were before. So appreciate them, not in what you say, but in what you can do, without anything in return.

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Which brings me to another kind of friendship that I do love to have in my life, a person that you might not see them every single day, or week, month or even years but still find ways to communicate. They are there in your heart in some way shape or form, they might not tell you but just how much of an impact you, being you, has had on them.

Some of these friends drift away, gone off to do their own thing for sometime but something always draws you back into their lives. It could be a life event, or someone who is just willing to take the plunge to make an effort to reconnect because they miss that feeling you gave to them, but something draws you back to the essence of their being.

And the magic happens when that time in-between, never even really happened, you just picked up where you left off. You might have grown, experienced different things but you still remember that feeling you got from being around that person.

Friends are like stars they come and they go but only the true ones glow

So what does all these have to do with the above quote at the very top? Everything! Friendships are very important to a persons success, people have the ability to uplift you or drag you down to their level. So choose your friends wisely my friends, You want to surround yourself with individuals that are optimistic, not pessimistic. You want to have friends that believe in possibilities and not just be satisfied with how things are. And lastly you want to be around people that have the same sense of purpose and passion as you do. People that want to be there to share your excitement, challenge you to do great things with your life and can help them do the same in theirs.

I will leave you with this great interview with LeBron James, NBA superstar, who credits his success in the NBA to the friendship he developed before his success.

Be Brave – Be strong and Be Legendary
– Michael

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5 things to be grateful for

Today was a great day of self reflection, after doing my morning post I took some time to meditate. It was very relaxing and a found myself in a very peaceful state of mind. I also started watching a bunch of different documentaries about the startup culture in the US, particularly how immigration laws make it difficult for entrepreneurs who move from over seas to the states in order to start a business.

Even if they were creating jobs that would employ 100 employees of Americans in the process they make it very difficult to start anything, I find that to be fascinating since I’ve always stated that North America was founded by immigrants. Now all of a sudden we close the doors and don’t let anyone in? It was a very good documentary regardless. One particular startup had to shut down his already up and going startup and lay off American employees to go through the process of getting a work visa. It’s bizarre.

Here is the link below of the video definitely worth the watch.

I also got into watching the BBC documentary on Steve Jobs, he is the most amazing person when you see his entire life story unfold on screen, it’s getting me very excited to watch the new film about his life ‘Jobs the Movie’ due out August 16 in theatres. I think Ashton Kutcher by the looks of the trailer will play Steve Jobs role very well. Personally probably will be my favourite movie of the summer!

And of course I did a few facebook posts, and tweets about stuff during the course of the day and that was pretty much my day in a nutshell, very relaxing and gearing up for a week of busy work and getting projects done and shipped out there.

I also reflected a little bit about my life on all the things that I am grateful for, and the list is absolutely endless if you really start to think about it you can rhyme off item after item, one by one. There is just so much we take advantage of knowing that it’s just there that we don’t pay enough homage to them.

Here are a little list of things I am grateful for:

1.) I am grateful for life, particularly my life, it has been an unusual journey of self-discovery, something that while there are things I wish I could go back and change in actual fact, things are just the way they should be. Firmly believe that things do happen for a reason, and while you might not know what that reason is right away just have faith that everything was meant to be as it is and should be. I am also particularly grateful for my natural artistic abilities. Something I discussed in the previous blog with the bible quote. It has always resonated something within me about that. And how many of us choose to live a life where we aren’t using our talents to it’s full potential. And lastly about my life is I am eternally grateful for all the opportunities I’ve had so far in my life time. And had a chance to work on some amazing projects with great people!

2.) Family, we take advantage of family so much in our life because we are surrounded by our family all the time. But when our family starts to disappear, and members of our family grow older and move on creating new families, we lose touch with them. It’s sad in a way but it’s always a beautiful thing when that sense of togetherness comes back for a BBQ or just simply hanging out for the sake of hanging out. And during tough times in our lives family is very important, that supportive feeling can be an awesome and uplifting feeling to have at your side.

3.) Friends, I’ve gained friends, I’ve lost friends, and I forged new friendships with people, that is the name of the game. I find that the quote about friendship is very much true…

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I will also add not just ‘real’ ones but people you can count on when in need, people that won’t lie to you just so it benefits them in the end. I would rather hear the truth from a real friend then hear a lie from a fake friend. But even the ones we weed out of our lives as not important to us, do teach us something. Even if it was a bad experience, it can be a humbling realization that humans will be humans and we must take them as they are and not what our idealistic views of how a friend should be like. Some friends were meant to only stay in our lives for a short period of time and when they leave it opens up room in your heart to let new and more exciting people to come in.

4.) Emotions, I am completely grateful for having the ability to freely express my emotions. Regardless of the type of emotions they are, even sadness, pain, and heart ache. Without these emotions we would never know what it feels like to feel in love, happiness, and fulfilment. It also makes you aware just how alive you truly are. I would not want to go day after day only feeling one emotion, even if it was happiness. I don’t think I would every feel right if I walked around with a smile 24/7 for the rest of my life. I need to have that personal struggle in my life to know how strong I am. I need to have the ability to express sadness when I need to, to show I am an emotional human being.

5.) Humbleness and Humility, sometimes we get very high and mighty on ourselves and can prove to be a detrimental, there is nothing wrong with pride. Only if you have the ability to be humble about your pride, and willingness to share a piece of vulnerability in humility. Sometimes life isn’t going to be this picture perfect life. You will fail more times than you will succeed at life. But the important aspect to remember is to never give up, no matter how many times you want to throw in the towel. Especially if your vision is as important to you as the air that you breathe. You will find away eventually, as long as you keep attacking from different angles and never get stuck on one particular thing.

I think from my point of view, I am just blessed to have so many wonderful things in my life, things that individuals take for granted and never seek gratitude to have that in their lives. I welcome pain and suffering just as much as I welcome love and happiness because I know good things never last but neither do bad. It’s part of the roller coaster of life.

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We can’t hide from pain, we can’t escape suffering, it’s better to develop natural coping mechanisms that will help you rise above your discomfort by working through it all to better understand yourself and understand the world we live in. But as we get better at understanding and knowing we will not know everything there is to know about life, the more you will risk and take more chances and when that happens life is a beautiful place.

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Love & Life – Poetry by Michael Canton

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Love & Life
Written By Michael Canton

Life is a wonderful thing, in the beginning so full of curiosity,
simple pleasures we experience, they are what make our heart sing
Share & experience so many emotions, riding high or sinking low,
We love with all our heart and souls.

We love with all our heart and souls,
without asking for anything in return, but to simply know.
To simply know, you too are being loved,
and being loved so simply so.

Without bias, only to believe, we will always be there for each other,
and that is all I need, that is all we need, to be together so.
Not money that grows from trees, to know you will always believe,
nor anything else us humans think we need in order to just breathe.

Just a simple hand, upon my chest, and my hand upon your heart,
to let us both know as humans our heart beat so.
So simply so, our heart beat as one, so sweetly though,
you can hear the love whisper within an echo, I love you so.

Don’t forget to check out my GoFundMe campaign for upcoming novel I’m writing!

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5 Amazing Motivational Quotes

Some people really hate motivational quotes, I personally love them, especially when things get really tough. You need that muse to uplift you to a higher self and realize that no matter what you go through, there was always someone, somewhere that went through tougher times than you.

And who better to inspire you, then someone who has live through a lot and made it through the other side alive, maybe death has taken them via naturally but still what ever personal struggle they went through in order to be quoted, they still survived it with a touch of positivity!

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“People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is how character is built.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

“The empires of the future are empires of the mind.”

— Winston Churchill

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; noting on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.”

— W. W. Ziege

“One key to successful leadership is continuous personal change. Personal change is a reflection of our inner growth and empowerment.”

— Robert E. Quinn

“To lead people, walk beside them … As for the best leaders, the people do not notice their existence. The next best, the people honor and praise. The next, the people fear; and the next, the people hate … When the best leader’s work is done the people say, ‘We did it ourselves!'”

— Lao-tsu

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Love & Logic

“Logic is like the sword – those who appeal to it, shall perish by it.” – Samuel Butler

There are events in our lives that defy the laws of logic, there are emotions that cause us to be illogical, emotions such as love. And yet we still believe it exist. Dreams we have while we sleep, manifest into our reality and it is evident we become more self-aware of our surroundings & emotional state of mind. Our doubts and fears as humans are all the same, our insecurities as emotional creatures are parallel to one another.

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We have the innate ability to create, re-invent evolve and unravel our future and shape the way our universe unfolds. Be bold, be passionate, be unique. And most of all be the person you know you can be in this world.

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Why I love YouTube Vlog

Now it’s your turn, what is about youtube that you love?

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