Today was a great day of self reflection, after doing my morning post I took some time to meditate. It was very relaxing and a found myself in a very peaceful state of mind. I also started watching a bunch of different documentaries about the startup culture in the US, particularly how immigration laws make it difficult for entrepreneurs who move from over seas to the states in order to start a business.
Even if they were creating jobs that would employ 100 employees of Americans in the process they make it very difficult to start anything, I find that to be fascinating since I’ve always stated that North America was founded by immigrants. Now all of a sudden we close the doors and don’t let anyone in? It was a very good documentary regardless. One particular startup had to shut down his already up and going startup and lay off American employees to go through the process of getting a work visa. It’s bizarre.
Here is the link below of the video definitely worth the watch.
I also got into watching the BBC documentary on Steve Jobs, he is the most amazing person when you see his entire life story unfold on screen, it’s getting me very excited to watch the new film about his life ‘Jobs the Movie’ due out August 16 in theatres. I think Ashton Kutcher by the looks of the trailer will play Steve Jobs role very well. Personally probably will be my favourite movie of the summer!
And of course I did a few facebook posts, and tweets about stuff during the course of the day and that was pretty much my day in a nutshell, very relaxing and gearing up for a week of busy work and getting projects done and shipped out there.
I also reflected a little bit about my life on all the things that I am grateful for, and the list is absolutely endless if you really start to think about it you can rhyme off item after item, one by one. There is just so much we take advantage of knowing that it’s just there that we don’t pay enough homage to them.
Here are a little list of things I am grateful for:
1.) I am grateful for life, particularly my life, it has been an unusual journey of self-discovery, something that while there are things I wish I could go back and change in actual fact, things are just the way they should be. Firmly believe that things do happen for a reason, and while you might not know what that reason is right away just have faith that everything was meant to be as it is and should be. I am also particularly grateful for my natural artistic abilities. Something I discussed in the previous blog with the bible quote. It has always resonated something within me about that. And how many of us choose to live a life where we aren’t using our talents to it’s full potential. And lastly about my life is I am eternally grateful for all the opportunities I’ve had so far in my life time. And had a chance to work on some amazing projects with great people!
2.) Family, we take advantage of family so much in our life because we are surrounded by our family all the time. But when our family starts to disappear, and members of our family grow older and move on creating new families, we lose touch with them. It’s sad in a way but it’s always a beautiful thing when that sense of togetherness comes back for a BBQ or just simply hanging out for the sake of hanging out. And during tough times in our lives family is very important, that supportive feeling can be an awesome and uplifting feeling to have at your side.
3.) Friends, I’ve gained friends, I’ve lost friends, and I forged new friendships with people, that is the name of the game. I find that the quote about friendship is very much true…
I will also add not just ‘real’ ones but people you can count on when in need, people that won’t lie to you just so it benefits them in the end. I would rather hear the truth from a real friend then hear a lie from a fake friend. But even the ones we weed out of our lives as not important to us, do teach us something. Even if it was a bad experience, it can be a humbling realization that humans will be humans and we must take them as they are and not what our idealistic views of how a friend should be like. Some friends were meant to only stay in our lives for a short period of time and when they leave it opens up room in your heart to let new and more exciting people to come in.
4.) Emotions, I am completely grateful for having the ability to freely express my emotions. Regardless of the type of emotions they are, even sadness, pain, and heart ache. Without these emotions we would never know what it feels like to feel in love, happiness, and fulfilment. It also makes you aware just how alive you truly are. I would not want to go day after day only feeling one emotion, even if it was happiness. I don’t think I would every feel right if I walked around with a smile 24/7 for the rest of my life. I need to have that personal struggle in my life to know how strong I am. I need to have the ability to express sadness when I need to, to show I am an emotional human being.
5.) Humbleness and Humility, sometimes we get very high and mighty on ourselves and can prove to be a detrimental, there is nothing wrong with pride. Only if you have the ability to be humble about your pride, and willingness to share a piece of vulnerability in humility. Sometimes life isn’t going to be this picture perfect life. You will fail more times than you will succeed at life. But the important aspect to remember is to never give up, no matter how many times you want to throw in the towel. Especially if your vision is as important to you as the air that you breathe. You will find away eventually, as long as you keep attacking from different angles and never get stuck on one particular thing.
I think from my point of view, I am just blessed to have so many wonderful things in my life, things that individuals take for granted and never seek gratitude to have that in their lives. I welcome pain and suffering just as much as I welcome love and happiness because I know good things never last but neither do bad. It’s part of the roller coaster of life.
We can’t hide from pain, we can’t escape suffering, it’s better to develop natural coping mechanisms that will help you rise above your discomfort by working through it all to better understand yourself and understand the world we live in. But as we get better at understanding and knowing we will not know everything there is to know about life, the more you will risk and take more chances and when that happens life is a beautiful place.